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Big News! I’m on Patreon!

Hello everyone!

BIG NEWS!! I’ve created and launched a Patreon account!

I’ve put in at least 30 hours worth of writing, editing, rewriting, linking, connecting, podcasting, and a couple of hours trying to do my 5-minute introductory video for my new venture!

Honestly, I spent more than an hour outside trying to make a nice-looking video for you only to be constantly interrupted by: a UPS truck driving up to neighbor’s house **BEEP BEEP!**, a loud car driving by, sirens of a fire &/or ambulance, another neighbor chopping wood(?), neighbor’s dog barking, and more. ūüėÄ

I gave up and shot the video on my desktop at night.

But…as I said, I’m a podcaster and a writer/blogger, not a vlogger! (Although, secretly? I’d love to do some more videos for you down the road.)

I’d love for you to visit my Patreon page, listen and/or read my story, and, hopefully, feel called to become a Patron and join the community I want to create there.

For those of you who don’t realize it, if you subscribe here, you’ll receive my weekly newsletter, usually discussing the message(s) from my Sunday radio show, Messages From The Other Side, (every Sunday at 3:30pm EST) You will also receive special news bulletins, and be notified of any discounts I offer.

I rarely do blog posts on here anymore, so I highly recommend you either subscribing to my newsletter or becoming a Patron where I’ll post the newsletter and any special news or offers first for Patrons. You can read more about my offerings there.

I hope you’ll join me on this new venture! Thanks!

Love & light,

~Lisa

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First Episode of Radio Show Successful (and a beautiful message included)

My first episode of Messages From The Other Side is complete! I was a little rusty in the sense of asking Spirit to come through as strongly and quickly as possible, but it went alright! I just have to get back in the groove for quicker readings.

I was having difficulty hearing my callers, especially the second caller so I’m going to try a more direct connection with BlogTalkRadio next week. (I’ll test it during the week.) Just know, if you’re calling in, try to call from a landline for the best connection, or at least, from a very strong wifi signal with your cell phone.

The better connection I have with you, the better connection I’ll have with your loved ones on the Other Side. Thanks!

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One thing interesting about today’s episode was my first caller, Donna, asking if she would be with her son (lost due to a miscarriage), when she crossed over.

I was a little puzzled, to be honest, because this woman consistently meditated to connect with her loved ones with great success! And yet, she hadn’t realized she would see and be with her son and other loved ones on the Other Side when she arrived.

A little piece of the puzzle was missing and she seemed happy to know that I believe that she will definitely see her son and others.

And, I thought it was so very sweet that she asked if she could talk to him now. Yes! Absolutely! I hope that brought her comfort and I’m sure she’ll be able to successfully connect with him now that she realizes he’s okay and still exists, in the form of Spirit. Does that make sense?

Now, I also happen to believe if you don’t want to hang out with certain relatives on the Other Side, you don’t have to! But, you certainly have the option of being with any and all family members and friends!

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The message was clear: we are all connected and Donna knows this, has proven it to herself through meditation and dream visitations (her mom!). We have only to be open to those connections, as she will now be open to connecting with her son.

(I’ll write more about those connections in next week’s newsletter and post.)

For now, take heart in knowing your loved ones on the Other Side, no matter how brief your connection to them in this physical life, are with you and love you, and support you…always.

Sending you love and light,

~Lisa

P.S.¬†I’ve opened up my calendar through November to schedule readings, so if you know anyone who is interested, please let them know I have openings available. Thank you!

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Being Patient and Asking For Guidance

A quick reminder! Today is the last day for people to subscribe to my newsletter in order to be eligible for a chance to win a free 20-minute mediumship! So if you have a friend or family member who is curious or interested, please have them sign up!

I’ll be randomly choosing a winner (writing the names on paper & drawing them from a bowl) tomorrow, October 1, 2018.

Please know that whomever¬†is chosen, needs it the most right then, at that moment. I’ll contact¬†the winner via email. ūüôā

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Re-reading some of my old posts over the last month, I’ve realized how much my voice has changed. How much my perspective has shifted since experiencing the loss of my beloved. Grief permeates every fiber of your being and so, your life. I now have an even greater depth of understanding and compassion¬†towards those who have suffered losses, especially that of a spouse or partner.

And, I, more clearly, see the¬†reasons¬†behind the blocks we set up while grieving that make it difficult to recognize signs from our loved ones on the Other Side…for a time.

But, take heart, as I am. I¬†know¬†we’ll get to a place eventually, where we can smile when we think about and talk about our loved ones, more often than cry. Even now, sorrow¬†can¬†be interspersed with moments of laughter recalling something funny our loved ones used to say or did. Grasp onto those moments, even if tears follow. In time, I know those moments will be able to be followed by an endearing smile rather than tears of sorrow.

Some have already reached that place.

I’m not quite there yet and I don’t know when I will be…and that’s okay. If you’re not there yet, that’s okay too. Just know, you¬†will¬†get there…in your own time.

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As a medium, I¬†know¬†our loved ones’ Spirit lives on. How can I not? They let me know! I hear and sense them in a variety of ways. I can’t deny that.

What is wonderful is that I feel the love they have for you. I feel their support and encouragement towards you, guiding you to be the best you can be in whatever way they possibly can.

So, don’t be afraid to ask for their guidance.

If one of your loved ones was good at business, ask them for guidance about a business decision you’re considering. If one of your loved ones gave great relationship advice, ask them to help you with a current relationship or to help bring in a new, more positive relationship.

Be open to communicating with them however you feel comfortable, and be open to hearing from them in, perhaps, unexpected ways.

Sending lots of love and light to you,

~Lisa

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Remember, last day to subscribe to my newsletter & be entered into a drawing for a chance to win a mediumship reading. -> Enter for a chance to win a free 20-minute reading.

Drawing to be held tomorrow, October 1, 2018!

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Newsletters & Posts

Hello everyone!

I’ve been keeping my newsletter subscribers up-to-date on my progress and just realized I haven’t kept you, my wonderful random audience, up-to-date as well! Sorry about that!

As I begin to rebuild my life after the loss of my dear, sweet husband, and my brain fog lifts enough to comprehend what I’m reading and learning, I have to remind myself to take baby steps and be kind to myself. I hope, in your journey with/through grief, you do this as well.

Be kind to yourself.¬†Do what you can each day, even if it’s simply getting yourself out of bed and getting something to eat. And, cry all you want. Don’t let anyone ever tell you you need to stop crying.

I’ve always said, “The depth of my grief/my tears is the depth of my love.” I refuse to hold back my tears for my beloved.

By the same token, if you don’t feel the need to cry, that’s okay too. We all grieve in different ways. You may not cry now but years later, and that’s okay too. Do whatever feels right to you at the moment. ((HUG))

Sending you healing wishes, love and light,

~Lisa

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Business news: This last week I’ve been busy. I’ve removed all but the last two of my BlogTalkRadio episodes as my channel has not really gotten any listeners for more than a year. It’s been two or three years(?) since I stopped broadcasting, so that’s not surprising. For me, though, it was also a symbolic gesture so that I can start anew.

At the same time, I’ve been looking into joining a radio network specifically with a focus on spirituality, and heart-centered business/life coaching amongst other like-minded entrepreneurs.

Unfortunately, my business isn’t big enough yet to afford to do so, so I may be restarting my weekly call-in show using BlogTalkRadio once again. If you’d like to be kept up-to-date, please subscribe to my weekly newsletter! (click in the right margin to do so—>) Thanks!

Don’t forget, when you subscribe during the month of September 2018, you will be entered into a drawing for a chance to win a FREE 20-minute reading as a thank-you for being so patient and understanding as I grieve.

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P.S. If you’re new to my site, here is an interesting post I wrote in 2013 about dual readings. What is a Dual Reading, you ask? Click to find out!¬†It’s quite fascinating and a lot of fun when this happens! Enjoy!

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Special offer in place!

To those who have been subscribed to my WordPress.com site for years and have yet to unsubscribe then re-subscribe to my new mailing list:

I’ve been working on a new platform for my business which will allow me to better manage my posts and emails and, keep *you* up-to-date on any special news.

As a thank you for being so kind and patient with me as I grieve the loss of my husband and try to rebuild my life, I have created a special offer.

From now through September 30, 2018, everyone who is on my new mailing list will be eligible for a chance to win a free 20-minute mediumship reading. I will randomly choose the winner from that list on October 1, 2018. 

Please know, if you have friends or family who are curious or could use some help connecting with their loved ones on the Other Side, you can pass this offer on to them as well.

All you (and they) have to do is sign up for my newsletter using the “Sign Up For My Newsletter” link on the right side of this page to be entered into the drawing.¬†

Love and light,

Lisa

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New Sign Up Link!

Hello all!

I’ve been busy working on a few things to make your life (and mine) easier. It’s taken me forever but I’ve persevered. Here we go:

If you remember from my post in December 2017 (has it really been three months already?), I now have my payment and scheduling system set up for mediumship readings. It’s not exactly how I’d like it but it works! Oh, and yes, you should be able to schedule a reading through May 2018 now.

WordPress only allows me to do so much here and, even though I do pay an annual fee, there are limitations, and I have to do a lot of work-arounds. In the next year, I plan on moving/shifting over to a new site where it should look a little better and more professional but for now, it’s good. Thank you for bearing with me. ūüôā

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I’m happy to report I’ve set up a new link for you to subscribe to my newsletter where you’ll receive the latest news, blog posts and special offers I’m working on. If you follow me on Twitter, you may have heard me tweet about some things I’m working on a few months ago. Hang in there with me! I’m doing a lot of developer work and it’s been a challenge.

IMPORTANT! PLEASE READ!

If you’ve subscribed to be notified of new blog posts prior to today’s date, could you please re-subscribe through the new link right below the Search window where it says “SUBSCRIBE!” Simply click on the “Sign up for my newsletter!” and follow the instructions.

I’m using a new tool to help me communicate with you wonderful people and I think this newsletter will work much better than a quick notification that a new blog post has been published. If it all works properly, the new blog posts will be delivered right to your inbox and you can read them at your leisure.

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As my mind slowly clears, I’ve been able to move forward with my business: baby step by baby step. Far too slowly for me, to be honest, but these last few months, I’m finally feeling capable again.

My thanks to all of my followers, new and established, for your patience and understanding as I slowly emerge from my chrysalis of grief and venture into a new reality where Hank’s physicalness is so greatly absent yet I know he is still loving and supporting me and our son each and every day.

A year and three months later, I’m just beginning to open myself up to sensing him on the Other Side. I keep telling him to bear with me as my heart wrestles with my mind in acknowledging his passing.

For those of you who are at this stage in your grief, I’m right there with you. Be patient and kind to yourself. Give yourself time and lots of love. Your loved ones on the Other Side are with you every step of the way.

Love and light, ~Lisa

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Where Have I Been?

My dear followers and subscribers,

It’s been two years since I’ve posted. What have I been up to? Well, from October 2015-August 2016, I took a year off. I decided to let go of all my efforts to either find a job or earn a steady income since nothing has panned out for many years. I left it up to the Universe to guide me in the direction I was supposed to go. I guess I was lucky I didn’t find work because my time and attention would be consumed by my husband’s journey ahead.

It is with great sorrow that I must tell you that late last Autumn (2016), my beloved husband of 29 years, Hank, suffered several series of small strokes which led to the discovery, in November 2016, of an “untreatable, very aggressive, stage 4 cancer with a +1 gene mutation”. He was gone three and a half weeks later, on December 14, 2016. He was only 56 years old. Hank was, and still is, the love of my life.

One year later, I am still in the depths of sorrow, grieving and struggling to survive emotionally, physically and financially (unfortunately, Hank didn’t have life insurance).

Our son has been phenomenal throughout this tragedy and has helped me so much financially as well as emotionally this past year. Unfortunately, his life and job search was put on hold during the ordeal and, this last year, he’s been working hard to find a permanent full-time job, even if it’s not in his area of interest/degree. He’s still looking.

We talk about his father all the time: remembering Hank’s kindness, his wonderful laugh, his strong, deep voice, things he loved to do, or loved to see.

To be honest, I’m still reeling, and the last few months I’ve been reliving all the trauma of the entire experience.¬†There hasn’t been a day that’s gone by for more than a year when I haven’t cried, and that’s okay. The tears help me grieve. I tell people: The depth of my grief is the depth of my love.

I miss Hank so very much and can now fully comprehend the depth of sorrow some of my clients have experienced. Yes, I now know this incomprehensible loss all too well.

I also find myself asking the same questions my clients ask me, “Why him? He was such a good man.” “Why now?” “Why isn’t he here?” My pain blocks me from knowing the answers, at least for now.

But, there is one thing I know for certain. I am truly blessed to have been loved so deeply by this wonderful, incredibly kind and loving man. A man whom I loved, and will always love, with all my heart and soul.

With love and light, ~Lisa

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