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Big News! I’m on Patreon!

Hello everyone!

BIG NEWS!! I’ve created and launched a Patreon account!

I’ve put in at least 30 hours worth of writing, editing, rewriting, linking, connecting, podcasting, and a couple of hours trying to do my 5-minute introductory video for my new venture!

Honestly, I spent more than an hour outside trying to make a nice-looking video for you only to be constantly interrupted by: a UPS truck driving up to neighbor’s house **BEEP BEEP!**, a loud car driving by, sirens of a fire &/or ambulance, another neighbor chopping wood(?), neighbor’s dog barking, and more. ūüėÄ

I gave up and shot the video on my desktop at night.

But…as I said, I’m a podcaster and a writer/blogger, not a vlogger! (Although, secretly? I’d love to do some more videos for you down the road.)

I’d love for you to visit my Patreon page, listen and/or read my story, and, hopefully, feel called to become a Patron and join the community I want to create there.

For those of you who don’t realize it, if you subscribe here, you’ll receive my weekly newsletter, usually discussing the message(s) from my Sunday radio show, Messages From The Other Side, (every Sunday at 3:30pm EST) You will also receive special news bulletins, and be notified of any discounts I offer.

I rarely do blog posts on here anymore, so I highly recommend you either subscribing to my newsletter or becoming a Patron where I’ll post the newsletter and any special news or offers first for Patrons. You can read more about my offerings there.

I hope you’ll join me on this new venture! Thanks!

Love & light,

~Lisa

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Special Discount If You Book in November 2018!

A Reminder to Let Go of Our Expectations

Once again, the Universe seems to be sending me messages…or is that Hank? I was immediately drawn to this post from October 2013. It’s about letting go of our expectations of HOW messages or opportunities come to us, and the art of connecting with people (and why it’s so important for people like me…mediums).

Briefly, when we have the how we want to hear from our loved one: a touch on the shoulder, hear his/her voice audibly, have a visit in our dreams, feel their presence, set in our minds, we can miss the ways they ARE communicating with us.

Remember, their strength may be sending you their name all the time but if you have it in your head that you want to actually SEE a vision of them, you’ll ignore the instances of seeing or hearing their name everywhere. You’ll see those as coincidences rather than signs and simply dismiss them.

As you know, I’ve had trouble connecting with my beloved on the Other Side. Then I catch myself thinking, but have I really? I want to sense Hank near me, I want to¬†FEEL¬†his presence. And because of that, have I been dismissing the signs he¬†IS¬†sending me?

Like going for a walk several months ago, crying and talking to him (yeah, my neighbors probably think I’m crazy but I don’t care¬†plus¬†a lot of them know I’m a recent widow anyway), and pleading for him to help us financially, we desperately needed money for food.

As I began my walk, I had to cross over to the other side of the street because there were neighbors with a dog that I really didn’t want to talk to ahead of me. (Note: I never walk on that side of the street going that way.)

As I sobbed and pleaded to Hank, “We need money NOW!” I looked down and there was a $5 bill amongst the leaves next to the curb!

I looked around for another person who may have dropped it but there was no one. I thanked Hank profusely and asked him (along with all his guides and angels) to keep helping us financially.

I¬†know¬†he’s been working overtime helping us survive, so why am I not registering these little acts of assistance as him connecting with me? I mean, I am…but I’m not, you know?

One thing Hank was, was a hard worker and a good provider. Somehow, we’d make enough to squeak by every month. Even when a job fell through, he’d have a call within a day for a side job to make up for it. And because I am, by nature, frugal, I made sure we saved everywhere we could to stretch the money he made as far as it could go. We never had “extra” due to my unfortunate unemployment, but we had enough for bills…just.

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So this week, think back, and pay attention to the little things that worked (and work) out in your life, the happy accidents or the synchronicities. What were your expectations of a call, situation, meeting, event? Did you adapt or hold tight to those expectations and what were the results?

Have you asked your loved one to “show themselves” while ignoring more subtle signs from them? Don’t dismiss the subtle signs! Thank them for the unexpected sign so they know they can use that same sign again and again to let their presence known to you to offer you comfort. Write them down¬†and date them and I bet you’ll see a pattern emerge.

I’m trying to remember to do this myself so I can fully acknowledge Hank’s communications with me, so I’m right there with you!

For another great example of letting go of your expectations on HOW you may get a sign or message or guidance, please click here.

Love and light,

Lisa

P.S. Don’t forget to subscribe to my weekly newsletter during the month of September for a chance to win a FREE 20-minute reading! And, of course, keep you updated on news, special offers and blog posts. Thanks and good luck!

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Special offer in place!

To those who have been subscribed to my WordPress.com site for years and have yet to unsubscribe then re-subscribe to my new mailing list:

I’ve been working on a new platform for my business which will allow me to better manage my posts and emails and, keep *you* up-to-date on any special news.

As a thank you for being so kind and patient with me as I grieve the loss of my husband and try to rebuild my life, I have created a special offer.

From now through September 30, 2018, everyone who is on my new mailing list will be eligible for a chance to win a free 20-minute mediumship reading. I will randomly choose the winner from that list on October 1, 2018. 

Please know, if you have friends or family who are curious or could use some help connecting with their loved ones on the Other Side, you can pass this offer on to them as well.

All you (and they) have to do is sign up for my newsletter using the “Sign Up For My Newsletter” link on the right side of this page to be entered into the drawing.¬†

Love and light,

Lisa

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New Sign Up Link!

Hello all!

I’ve been busy working on a few things to make your life (and mine) easier. It’s taken me forever but I’ve persevered. Here we go:

If you remember from my post in December 2017 (has it really been three months already?), I now have my payment and scheduling system set up for mediumship readings. It’s not exactly how I’d like it but it works! Oh, and yes, you should be able to schedule a reading through May 2018 now.

WordPress only allows me to do so much here and, even though I do pay an annual fee, there are limitations, and I have to do a lot of work-arounds. In the next year, I plan on moving/shifting over to a new site where it should look a little better and more professional but for now, it’s good. Thank you for bearing with me. ūüôā

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I’m happy to report I’ve set up a new link for you to subscribe to my newsletter where you’ll receive the latest news, blog posts and special offers I’m working on. If you follow me on Twitter, you may have heard me tweet about some things I’m working on a few months ago. Hang in there with me! I’m doing a lot of developer work and it’s been a challenge.

IMPORTANT! PLEASE READ!

If you’ve subscribed to be notified of new blog posts prior to today’s date, could you please re-subscribe through the new link right below the Search window where it says “SUBSCRIBE!” Simply click on the “Sign up for my newsletter!” and follow the instructions.

I’m using a new tool to help me communicate with you wonderful people and I think this newsletter will work much better than a quick notification that a new blog post has been published. If it all works properly, the new blog posts will be delivered right to your inbox and you can read them at your leisure.

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As my mind slowly clears, I’ve been able to move forward with my business: baby step by baby step. Far too slowly for me, to be honest, but these last few months, I’m finally feeling capable again.

My thanks to all of my followers, new and established, for your patience and understanding as I slowly emerge from my chrysalis of grief and venture into a new reality where Hank’s physicalness is so greatly absent yet I know he is still loving and supporting me and our son each and every day.

A year and three months later, I’m just beginning to open myself up to sensing him on the Other Side. I keep telling him to bear with me as my heart wrestles with my mind in acknowledging his passing.

For those of you who are at this stage in your grief, I’m right there with you. Be patient and kind to yourself. Give yourself time and lots of love. Your loved ones on the Other Side are with you every step of the way.

Love and light, ~Lisa

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BlogTalkRadio Announcement

Hello all! This is an important announcement regarding my weekly call-in radio show on BlogTalkRadio Announcement.

I wanted to let you know that I will no longer be doing my weekly radio show.

I’ve been getting a LOT of signs over the past couple of weeks that it’s time to end this chapter in my life, to let go, so something even better can come into my reality.

Now, since I love radio, I don’t want to say I’ll never use this platform again but in the past month or two, I haven’t had any callers for one too many airings (and no callers even today), and I don’t want this show to turn into a ramble or monologue. That’s not what this is about.

This show is about you. I do this show to be of service to you. I connect you to your loved ones who have passed away in the hopes of helping you realize they are, indeed, only a thought away.

Your loved ones are still here and they still love you and want the best for you. They are here to support and encourage you.

I hope that I’ve helped you learn that you can directly connect with them too. Over the past two and a half years, I’ve given you guidance on how to do so and I thank you with all my heart for this wonderful journey.

When I first went public with my abilities and then my service to you on such a public platform as a weekly call-in radio show, I was absolutely terrified…but I felt it was the next step for me and followed my intuition. You, my listeners and callers, have treated me with great kindness and openness, and that dispelled all of my fears, and I thank you for that.

I don’t think words can express how grateful I am that you allowed me…to be me!

I am touched that you would entrust me with your Self, your life, and your love for your family and friends. I am very grateful to be a part of that connection, and to be of service to you in that way.

So, thank you for joining me, Lisa on Messages From The Other Side on BlogTalkRadio for these past two and a half years. I wish you the best in life, and I send out lots of love and light to you all.

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Please remember, you can always reach me through this site, and through Twitter. My Twitter username is lablady. Should you be interested in scheduling a full 60-minute mediumship reading with me, feel free to contact me via the link on my Contact Me page. And, don’t forget, you can still listen to my shows as they are all archived. Listen to whichever one pulls at you from the list. Spirit has given us all some great messages over the years.

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What Do I Get Out Of Doing Mediumship Readings For People? Joyful Connections!

I have been asked this question, or a variation thereof, quite a few times:

Why do this type¬†of work¬†and what’s in it for me? Like everything I’ve ever done in my life, it is to serve, to help others with my experience and knowledge. And…yes, there¬†is¬†more to it.

Aside from knowing I’ve successfully delivered a much-needed message, it’s the beautiful connections I make between loved ones¬†that brings me such joy, especially when I’ve had a week fraught with problems. This June 21, 2014 episode of¬†Messages From The Other Side,¬†is a great example of those beautiful connections.

I get to tap into the love and support your loved ones on the Other Side have for you, and it makes my heart sing.

I love sensing and feeling the love, concern and support from those on the Other Side. I also love hearing and sensing the love and gratitude¬†in my clients’ voices too. When there’s that “Oh! I know who that is!” or “I know what that’s about!” That’s precious to me and I give thanks to Spirit for being clear. I am thankful that I’m hearing or seeing or sensing what is needed for that person at that moment so they can be sure they are not alone, that their loved ones’ spirit lives on.

I also love hearing the relief and yes, sometimes the much-needed release of emotions. To me, that means healing is taking place, and that’s what making these connections is all about: healing.

Recently, I’m noticing more and more that Spirit wants to get right to the messages of support and guidance to my clients. They are anxious for their guidance to be heard but I like¬†to make sure (and I ask¬†Spirit to do so), that I receive and pass on evidential validations first. This way,¬†my client is certain that I’m connecting with their loved one(s) on the Other Side and are more open to receiving the guidance¬†their loved ones are giving.

This interesting transition tells me that our loved ones are rooting for our health and well-being far more than we realize.

For me, it confirms they are watching over us and want us to succeed, and they want to be heard. Our loved ones on the Other Side want to share their wisdom, their love, their support. By connecting¬†with me to pass on messages of love, guidance,¬†and support and feeling that loving connection knowing it will help you¬†(my clients) move forward in positive¬†way…well, it¬†makes my heart sing.¬†I am so happy to¬†be¬†able to share these communications.

I thank you and your loved ones for allowing me to share that connection, and encourage you to realize¬†you can (and most likely already are!) connecting with your loved one(s) directly. Relax into the moments, and be open and aware of life’s synchronicities when you are thinking about them.

As with all moments, sometimes they are light and fleeting (a quick “Hello, I’m here!”) while¬†other times,¬†you may have a deeper knowing/sensing/feeling of their presence (an overwhelming sense of love w/an inner hearing of their voice, perhaps). All of these moments are direct communications from your loved ones. Simply¬†acknowledge¬†them and be joyful.

Love and light, Lisa ūüôā

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