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A Reminder to Let Go of Our Expectations

Once again, the Universe seems to be sending me messages…or is that Hank? I was immediately drawn to this post from October 2013. It’s about letting go of our expectations of HOW messages or opportunities come to us, and the art of connecting with people (and why it’s so important for people like me…mediums).

Briefly, when we have the how we want to hear from our loved one: a touch on the shoulder, hear his/her voice audibly, have a visit in our dreams, feel their presence, set in our minds, we can miss the ways they ARE communicating with us.

Remember, their strength may be sending you their name all the time but if you have it in your head that you want to actually SEE a vision of them, you’ll ignore the instances of seeing or hearing their name everywhere. You’ll see those as coincidences rather than signs and simply dismiss them.

As you know, I’ve had trouble connecting with my beloved on the Other Side. Then I catch myself thinking, but have I really? I want to sense Hank near me, I want to FEEL his presence. And because of that, have I been dismissing the signs he IS sending me?

Like going for a walk several months ago, crying and talking to him (yeah, my neighbors probably think I’m crazy but I don’t care plus a lot of them know I’m a recent widow anyway), and pleading for him to help us financially, we desperately needed money for food.

As I began my walk, I had to cross over to the other side of the street because there were neighbors with a dog that I really didn’t want to talk to ahead of me. (Note: I never walk on that side of the street going that way.)

As I sobbed and pleaded to Hank, “We need money NOW!” I looked down and there was a $5 bill amongst the leaves next to the curb!

I looked around for another person who may have dropped it but there was no one. I thanked Hank profusely and asked him (along with all his guides and angels) to keep helping us financially.

know he’s been working overtime helping us survive, so why am I not registering these little acts of assistance as him connecting with me? I mean, I am…but I’m not, you know?

One thing Hank was, was a hard worker and a good provider. Somehow, we’d make enough to squeak by every month. Even when a job fell through, he’d have a call within a day for a side job to make up for it. And because I am, by nature, frugal, I made sure we saved everywhere we could to stretch the money he made as far as it could go. We never had “extra” due to my unfortunate unemployment, but we had enough for bills…just.

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So this week, think back, and pay attention to the little things that worked (and work) out in your life, the happy accidents or the synchronicities. What were your expectations of a call, situation, meeting, event? Did you adapt or hold tight to those expectations and what were the results?

Have you asked your loved one to “show themselves” while ignoring more subtle signs from them? Don’t dismiss the subtle signs! Thank them for the unexpected sign so they know they can use that same sign again and again to let their presence known to you to offer you comfort. Write them down and date them and I bet you’ll see a pattern emerge.

I’m trying to remember to do this myself so I can fully acknowledge Hank’s communications with me, so I’m right there with you!

For another great example of letting go of your expectations on HOW you may get a sign or message or guidance, please click here.

Love and light,

Lisa

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I’m back! :)

Hello all! There will be a live Messages From The Other Side radio show today, Saturday, May 3rd, 2014 at 3:30pm EST. Find out why I was up ’til 5am today and how my intuition played a part. 🙂 Please call in at (646) 929-0732.

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Air date: May 3, 2014

Description: Join Lisa as she talks about listening to your intuition. She shares a funny and personal story of her own to show how your intuition comes into play in even the smallest ways! Lisa will also give free mini-readings to callers. Call-in number: (646) 929-0732.

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Friendly Weekly Reminder!

Hello everyone! It’s Saturday which means there’s a live Messages From The Other Side radio show on BlogTalkRadio today, March 29th, 2014 at 3:30pm EST.

A wicked thunder and lightning storm came through in the early morning hours lasting until about 30 minutes ago, so we should be fine for the show. The rain has stopped along with the thunder and lightning, the tornado watch is lifted and all is quiet. A little wet but quiet.

I look forward to connecting with you and your loved ones. 🙂

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Connections With Loved Ones

Air date: March 29, 2014

Description: Join Lisa as she gets right to your calls today. Please call in if you’d like Lisa to connect with loved ones on the Other Side or if you have questions about connecting with them directly. If you have an experience you’d like to share, Lisa welcomes your call as well. Call-in number: (646) 929-0732.

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Weekly Reminder

Hello everyone! Happy Spring! 😀

This is your friendly weekly reminder that I am having a live Messages From The Other Side radio show today, March 22, 2014 on BlogTalkRadio at 3:30pm EST in the U.S.. Please call in to see if a loved one would like to talk to you through me today and/or learn how you can connect with your loved one directly. I’m eager to connect with you and your loved ones!

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Air date: March 22, 2014

Description: The vernal equinox was on March 20th this year. Are you ready for Spring? Lisa would like to celebrate the hope that comes along with this season by springing into your calls today. Please call in: (646) 929-0732 for a free mini-reading.

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Friendly Weekly Reminder!

Hello everyone!

Yes, I’m having a live Messages From The Other Side BlogTalkRadio show today, March 15, 2014 at 3:30pm EST. See details below and I look forward to connecting you with your loved ones!

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Air date: March 15, 2014

Description: Do you want everything in your life to happen, to change right now? Listen in as Lisa reflects on last week’s caller and the brainstorming and intuitive life coaching it triggered for Lisa about wanting everything in your life to happen NOW. Can it be done? Should it be done that way? Is there a price to pay? Lisa will also be giving mini-readings to 1 or 2 callers.

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Your Friendly Weekly Reminder of Live Show!

Hello all!

Yes, there will be a live Messages From The Other Side show today, March 1, 2014 at 3:30pm EST on BlogTalkRadio.

I wasn’t sure I was going to be able to do a show today due to allergies – (fuzzy head syndrome) but I decided this gave me the perfect opportunity to address a question I’ve been asked before.

So, if you have any questions or are concerned that you aren’t receiving messages from your loved ones, please call in. I’d love to chat with you and if my allergies abate and Spirit chooses to connect with me, I’ll give you a free mini-reading. 🙂

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Air date: March 1, 2014

Description: Have you ever wondered why mediums (or you) can’t or don’t seem to receive messages sometimes? There are a variety of reasons! Tune in as Lisa explains. And, if you’re having trouble seeing signs from your loved ones who have crossed over, please call in with your questions. Call-in number is: (646) 929-0732.

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Reminder: Live Show Today!

Hello everyone! It’s Saturday already and it’s time for another live Messages From The Other Side BlogTalkRadio show. The show starts at 3:30pm EST and is only 30 minutes long so please join me early. I’d love to chat with you and your loved ones on the Other Side. See you soon! 🙂

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Air date: February 22, 2014

Description: Join Lisa today as she shares some exciting news and offers free mini-readings! It’s straight to the calls today, so please get in the queue early. Call-in number is (646) 929-0732.

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