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Messages From The Other Side #15 – June 30, 2019

Hello, everyone!

The message for us for this week has to do with releasing fears and doubt. I’m using Louise Hay’s Power Thought cards, and mention a neat little mind trick from Radleigh Valentine that I’ve been using for just this thing! (Synchronicity abounds!)

In a world filled with anxiety these days, it’s nice to know you’re not alone and it’s nice to know a few ways to calm your mind so you can move forward in your life in a positive manner. It’s also nice to know how to ask for and receive signs from those on the Other Side.

Plus, there’s some news at the end of the video where I tell you how you can further support me, if you’d like. You’re already doing a great job of liking these posts/videos. I appreciate that! It lets me know you want me to continue to connect with you using videos. Thanks for watching!

Love and light,

~Lisa

P.S. Here is the url I mention in the video, so you’re not confused. https://ko-fi.com/LisaBahr All you really have to do, if you’d like to buy me a “cup of coffee”, is click on the green button in the right margin. Thanks!

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Messages From The Other Side #14 – June 23, 2019

Hello, everyone!

Today, I talk to you about a variety of signs from the Universe, from Spirit which I received to validate the message for us for this week about change and how to deal with change. One of those signs was from a family of crows!

Whether you like change or hate it, we all go through changes in every aspect of life. How we deal with those changes can make them more difficult to bear, but, if we use the right tools, we can make it easier for ourselves to accept and adapt to those changes in a more positive way. I’ll give you a few tools/exercises to help!

I’m also using Abby Wynne’s book, The Book of Healing Affirmations along with a couple of afformations from Noah St. John, and some affirmative questions inspired by Marie Manuchehri (energy intuitive & former oncology nurse).

I’m always happy to share the names of positive leaders. So, don’t be afraid to do your own due diligence with people I mention. They’ve helped me in some way and I share their perspectives with you so you can see if they’ll work for you too.

If I’ve linked to them, it means I’ve personally worked with them and can vouch for them. If not, it simply means I haven’t personally worked with them but I’ve used their books, meditations, wisdom for myself and found it useful.

As always, I hope you find this video helpful, and if you have, please consider showing your support by buying me a cup of coffee. (Ok, I don’t drink coffee, so I changed it to buying me a bag of chocolate chips which I have a spoonful of every morning with my oatmeal.) 🙂 Thank you!

Sending you lots of love and light,

~Lisa

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Messages From The Other Side #13 – June 16, 2019

Hello, everyone!

As I mention in the video, I had a bit of a snafu with last week’s video, and since it was a little bit different, I’m taking that as a sign to let it go.

This week, I pulled a card from John Holland’s The Psychic Tarot Oracle Deck, and as I shuffled and asked Spirit for a message for the week, I heard very clearly: Stay Strong.

The card I pulled mentioned that too! Don’t you love synchronicities?

The card? Transformation. You do need strength when you’re transforming your Self, your life, don’t you?

As always, I hope you find this video helpful.

Love and light,

~Lisa

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Messages From The Other Side #5 – April 14, 2019

Today, I pulled a card from Louise Hay’s Power Thought Cards.

This card encourages us to focus on the present moment & gives us seven affirmations, one a day for the week to help take back our own power.

I hope you find it helpful.

Love and light,

~Lisa

P.S. If you like these videos, please consider supporting me on Ko-fi.

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Special News About My Radio Show!

(To listen to the audio version of this post, PLEASE CLICK HERE.)

Hello everyone!

As you may know, if you follow me on Twitter, I had a bit of a panic this past week and had to take a breather for a couple of days to figure out a new game-plan for creating/publishing podcasts and blog posts.

(Interesting to note that my panic came the night before something HUGE happened in the U.S. & I wonder if I was actually picking up someone else’s panic? That sort of thing has happened to me before – picking up on the energy of world events before finding out about them.)

As you also may know, I am in dire financial straits since my husband passed away in December 2016. Therefore, it is critical I spend my time on projects which have a better chance of bringing in an income.

The brain fog that comes with grieving, especially in the early months/year has lifted, for the most part, but I still can’t multi-task as easily as I, once, could (yet), so I get easily overwhelmed. I know those of you who are grieving understand this challenge.

If all goes well with the basics I’m offering via Patreon, it will free up my worry to be able to do even more to help you (and me!) heal, and improve your intuition in order to create a more positive life moving forward.

Now, when I re-started my BlogTalkRadio show, Messages From The Other Side in October 2018, I mentioned I would produce/write/host the show for a month or two to see how it works out then decide whether or not to continue.

The major change is this:

*I have come to the decision to stop doing my weekly public podcasts, for now.I will, however, create monthly, special-invite, Patron-Only podcasts!

As I mentioned above, I must focus my energy on projects and content which have a better chance to bring in an income, and my public, live radio shows have never brought me paying clients.

Examples: I had my job coaching radio show for three years, helped 1000s of people (callers as well as live & archived listeners), create professional resumes, finetune their job search, network, interview, follow-up, get hired, negotiate their salary, (seriously, I wrote more than 30,000+ words–a book for all my episodes!) and all my time, efforts, research, writing, producing, coaching, didn’t bring me onepaying client.

Same thing happened with my mediumship radio show: I wrote/produced/hosted it for three years, teaching how to best connect with your loved ones on the Other Side, what blocks you may have and how to let go of them, etc, and gave away hundreds of mini-readings, and only got 1 paying client ($50, at the time). She was the host of a “supernatural” radio show where she wanted me to guest, so she felt the need to vet me…which is fine, I don’t mind that. She paid me for my services and I appreciated that.

So, I guested on her show. She thought it would be good exposure for me because she had a larger and longer-established audience, and it would, probably, bring in some much-needed paying clients for me. I agreed because I also had read that this was a good way to promote yourself. Well, I ended up providing TWO HOURS worth of free mini-readings for her callers. Result?  Appreciative callers but not ONE paying client in the days, weeks or months afterwards.

And, please, don’t get me wrong. I am always happy to help those grieving by connecting them to their loved ones but I need to pay my mortgage and eat! So, it seems that, for whatever reason, after a decade’s worth of providing my services for free (both my job coaching as well as my mediumship services), these sorts of promotions simply don’t work for me. They do not result in paying clients.

So, that must go.

*What I will do, though, is have a private, monthly podcast for Patrons only ($5/month Tier) where you will be able to call in (I’ll have a chat room open as well), and I’ll pick 1 or 2 callers to chat with: you can ask questions, share a story, and/or have a free mini-reading!

I need to focus my limited energy (due to grief) on my Patrons.

*I will continue to upload ad-free archived podcasts from my Messages FromThe Other Side radio show from 2013-2016 weekly! In the meantime, I will find a place to store these 100+ episodes for easier reference and access for my Patrons.

*I will also put out a weekly blog post (newsletter) for Patrons-only with helpful insights and guidance for you to connect with your loved ones on the Other Side, improve your own intuition, and help support you in your grieving process.

*Bonus (if I’m not overwhelmed because I really want to do this): I want to pull a motivational, inspirational, insightful card (either tarot or positive affirmations) a few times a week, and if it’s not too overwhelming for me, maybe have it daily. I think we can all use a beautiful piece of artwork + some positive energy these days on a daily basis. 🙂

I haven’t decided whether or not it’ll be a photo or a quick video. I think my batteries are out on my camera, so it may have to be a short video. I use these cards for myself and they are always insightful and bring beauty into my life, so I hope they will do the same for you. I’m being encouraged to do this, so we’ll see what messages come through for all of us!

I believe I’ll be able to do all of the above on a consistent basis. We’ll see how it goes for December (which is a very rough month for me as Hank passed away this month 2 years ago, so I ask for your patience, and thank you in advance. ❤

At the beginning of the year, we’ll see what worked and what didn’t, if I could keep up with everything, and we’ll go from there. I’d love for this to work out for all of us, supporting you through your grief, and supporting you on your own unique spiritual journey in creating a positive, joy-filled life.

I wish you peace, love and light during this holiday season.

~Lisa

 
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A Reminder to Let Go of Our Expectations

Once again, the Universe seems to be sending me messages…or is that Hank? I was immediately drawn to this post from October 2013. It’s about letting go of our expectations of HOW messages or opportunities come to us, and the art of connecting with people (and why it’s so important for people like me…mediums).

Briefly, when we have the how we want to hear from our loved one: a touch on the shoulder, hear his/her voice audibly, have a visit in our dreams, feel their presence, set in our minds, we can miss the ways they ARE communicating with us.

Remember, their strength may be sending you their name all the time but if you have it in your head that you want to actually SEE a vision of them, you’ll ignore the instances of seeing or hearing their name everywhere. You’ll see those as coincidences rather than signs and simply dismiss them.

As you know, I’ve had trouble connecting with my beloved on the Other Side. Then I catch myself thinking, but have I really? I want to sense Hank near me, I want to FEEL his presence. And because of that, have I been dismissing the signs he IS sending me?

Like going for a walk several months ago, crying and talking to him (yeah, my neighbors probably think I’m crazy but I don’t care plus a lot of them know I’m a recent widow anyway), and pleading for him to help us financially, we desperately needed money for food.

As I began my walk, I had to cross over to the other side of the street because there were neighbors with a dog that I really didn’t want to talk to ahead of me. (Note: I never walk on that side of the street going that way.)

As I sobbed and pleaded to Hank, “We need money NOW!” I looked down and there was a $5 bill amongst the leaves next to the curb!

I looked around for another person who may have dropped it but there was no one. I thanked Hank profusely and asked him (along with all his guides and angels) to keep helping us financially.

know he’s been working overtime helping us survive, so why am I not registering these little acts of assistance as him connecting with me? I mean, I am…but I’m not, you know?

One thing Hank was, was a hard worker and a good provider. Somehow, we’d make enough to squeak by every month. Even when a job fell through, he’d have a call within a day for a side job to make up for it. And because I am, by nature, frugal, I made sure we saved everywhere we could to stretch the money he made as far as it could go. We never had “extra” due to my unfortunate unemployment, but we had enough for bills…just.

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So this week, think back, and pay attention to the little things that worked (and work) out in your life, the happy accidents or the synchronicities. What were your expectations of a call, situation, meeting, event? Did you adapt or hold tight to those expectations and what were the results?

Have you asked your loved one to “show themselves” while ignoring more subtle signs from them? Don’t dismiss the subtle signs! Thank them for the unexpected sign so they know they can use that same sign again and again to let their presence known to you to offer you comfort. Write them down and date them and I bet you’ll see a pattern emerge.

I’m trying to remember to do this myself so I can fully acknowledge Hank’s communications with me, so I’m right there with you!

For another great example of letting go of your expectations on HOW you may get a sign or message or guidance, please click here.

Love and light,

Lisa

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BlogTalkRadio Announcement

Hello all! This is an important announcement regarding my weekly call-in radio show on BlogTalkRadio Announcement.

I wanted to let you know that I will no longer be doing my weekly radio show.

I’ve been getting a LOT of signs over the past couple of weeks that it’s time to end this chapter in my life, to let go, so something even better can come into my reality.

Now, since I love radio, I don’t want to say I’ll never use this platform again but in the past month or two, I haven’t had any callers for one too many airings (and no callers even today), and I don’t want this show to turn into a ramble or monologue. That’s not what this is about.

This show is about you. I do this show to be of service to you. I connect you to your loved ones who have passed away in the hopes of helping you realize they are, indeed, only a thought away.

Your loved ones are still here and they still love you and want the best for you. They are here to support and encourage you.

I hope that I’ve helped you learn that you can directly connect with them too. Over the past two and a half years, I’ve given you guidance on how to do so and I thank you with all my heart for this wonderful journey.

When I first went public with my abilities and then my service to you on such a public platform as a weekly call-in radio show, I was absolutely terrified…but I felt it was the next step for me and followed my intuition. You, my listeners and callers, have treated me with great kindness and openness, and that dispelled all of my fears, and I thank you for that.

I don’t think words can express how grateful I am that you allowed me…to be me!

I am touched that you would entrust me with your Self, your life, and your love for your family and friends. I am very grateful to be a part of that connection, and to be of service to you in that way.

So, thank you for joining me, Lisa on Messages From The Other Side on BlogTalkRadio for these past two and a half years. I wish you the best in life, and I send out lots of love and light to you all.

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Please remember, you can always reach me through this site, and through Twitter. My Twitter username is @IntuitiveLB. Should you be interested in scheduling a full 60-minute mediumship reading with me, feel free to contact me via the link on my Contact Me page. And, don’t forget, you can still listen to my shows as they are all archived. Listen to whichever one pulls at you from the list. Spirit has given us all some great messages over the years.

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